Designing your days on purpose.
A Happiness Process is a place to explore how small daily choices shape how we feel — and how to make more of them on purpose, with a little warmth and a little structure.
Happiness isn't something
we stumble into.
It can be designed.
Not in a rigid, colour-coded-planner kind of way. More like: noticing what actually gives you energy, removing a bit of daily friction, and building small habits that make ordinary days feel more alive.
That's what this place is for. Part newsletter, part experiment, part slowly-growing community of people who like structure but don't want their lives to feel like a productivity spreadsheet.
Ideas worth sitting with.
Not the intimidating 5am kind. Just small, honest rituals that make starting the day feel like a choice rather than a stumble.
Low-stakes things to try. Things like: what if I took a real lunch break? What if I wrote one thing down at the end of each day?
Simple frameworks for designing a day that feels intentional — without turning your life into a project management tool.
Sunlight, movement, curiosity, compliments, creativity. The underrated ingredients that make a regular day feel more like yours.
Some joy is easy and immediate. Some only reveals itself in hindsight. Making space for both turns out to be quietly important.
Not someone else's optimised existence — just a version of your days that you actually meant to have. Built slowly and on purpose.
Hi, I'm Monica.
I think about this stuff a lot.
I've spent a long time thinking about process — how things can work better, where friction hides, how people build systems that actually hold up. Somewhere along the way, I started applying all of that to a more personal question.
How can we make our days feel better, on purpose? A Happiness Process grew out of that question. It's still growing. I don't have all the answers — just a genuine curiosity and a newsletter where I think out loud.
Read more about this project →Wherever you want to start is fine.
What A Happiness Process is, why Monica started it, who it's for, and what you'll find here.
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